Regarding to having a second child April 3, 2009

I’m wondering why there is not a whole lot of publications on this, for me a cause of much agony and anxiety. Among all the myths a woman has to endure and live with, very few attention or splitting of views is given on the choice to have one or more kid.

I’m standing at the crossroad, knowing this decision is inadvertently the most important one for my whole life and trying to lay out a good foundation for argument. As the maternal instinct pushes, all the for votes go side by side with the conventional wisdom. One child is too lonely, too possessive, selfish and a sibling can change the equation like no others. Plus the benefit of having another person to love, needless to say to be conforming to the majority of multiple-kid families categories.

However, when I look the past four years of my motherhood, the most prominent feeling passing the glory and joy of loving a child, is really how much the “woman” behind the “mom” has been altered, my career had to take a setback, personal development impeded, most of all, a sense of feeling your own person, not a diminutive “mini” person living in a big shell of “mom” has to take a back seat.

For me, I see that little person is trying so hard to come out of the shell, and finally the curve is heading up from the slump. Having a second child means to push me back again, physically, emotionally, intellectually, economically, the more I think about it, the more I see the road divided right at this junction. I love my son wholeheartedly and he will remain my sole devotion, and he will realize having mommy being a whole person is probably more important than having a sibling to play with.

Friends and family, your opinions are welcomed and appreciated, like I say, let the great debate start…..

Outliers March 9, 2009

You have probably heard about this bestseller sensation but may wonder what kind of book it is to be one of the most popular non-fiction titles ever. In one of the most fascinating books I’ve read, “success” was examined and analyzed in the most unusual way.  Outliers tries to demystify so called personal attributes such as talents, efforts or social-economic class to determine one’s success.  What do three most important figures in PC history, Bill Joy, Steve Jobs and Bill Gates have in common? Surely they’re outstandingly talented but the answer will definitely surprise you.

Does IQ, hard work or family upbringing really play main roles in determining one’s success?  Or is it more the sheer luck of being born in the right time, the right culture and the right community in order to create a “genius” of our time? Chapter after chapter, the author weaves through compelling evidence of case studies and cultural analyses to show us the truth behind a success story. Amazingly insightful and ingenious, Gladwell takes the readers in for a treat to dissect the parts and pieces which put an individual or culture ahead of the curve. And by the same token, he found compelling reasons why certain individuals or cultures just couldn’t make the cut.  Chris Langan, world’s smartest man, whose IQ is above Einstein’s, is a quintessential case of why just high IQ is not enough to be an outlier.

In searching for a high-quality non-fiction title for teens, I found myself extremely gratified with this groundbreaking book. Teens will be immersed with Gladwell’s refreshing ideas in a mission to find the factors that made one an “outlier”. Also try his earlier works “The Tipping Point” and “Blink” with the same kind of enlightening power.

Wiki the project builder January 16, 2009

After exploring the sites recommended on our wlslearns’ page, I found it quite interesting the collaboration a wiki could achieve. Surely it is much more efficient to build a wiki covering a project with all the indexing functionality rather than starting from scratch with HTML. In a way, a blogging page works like a wiki while the topics are involving around the creator of the blog. So I will say blog is more biographical and wiki is more functional; but blog could be also topical, however even so, blog is more of a journal than a neat filtering/organizing information or knowledge.

I know Wiki is very useful for educator for students to create projects and track progress. Corporation use it widely to collaborate projects among team members.  And we just had our Westchester’s Choices Wiki created, these surly are the best utilization of this tool.

If you give Wall Street a Bailout January 4, 2009

A poem inspired by ” If you give a Mouse a Cookie”

If you give Wall Street a Bailout

If you give Wall Street a bailout,
He is going to ask for unfreezing of the credit market;
When the market remains frozen,
He will want you to lower the interest rate;
When the interest rate doesn’t rally the stock market,
He will want you save his friends in Detroit;
If you save his friends in Detroit,
He will also want you to lend hands to his friends the homebuilders;
But when his Detroit Friends show up in private jets,
You get angry and bellow “No bailouts to all of you tonight! Now go to bed.”
But when Wall Street is getting weary again,
He will come to you for an even lower interest rate;
Chances are when the interest rate approaches zero,
He will need a bailout to go with it.

Dec. 24
Teresa Chang

Six Random things responding to Deirdre’s request January 2, 2009

Hey, Deirdre mainly,

Six Random Things about me:
1. Once in a while believe in random luck and random things(so you know how random I actually am);
2. Wanted to learn and know as many languages and cultures there are;
3. Crave for different kind of food, not necessary Chinese;
4. Drawn into a subject and couldn’t lift my head off it;
5. All of sudden want to talk to a long lost friend;
6. Organize the bookshelf and order more organizing gadgets.
My rule to play is simple, try to be random and spontaneous once everyday! No need to tag anyone else but yourself:
http://mary-j-59.livejournal.com
http://deirdrea.wordpress.com
http://miriamthelibrarian.wordpress.com/
http://middleclassmassacre.blogspot.com/

http://wlschildrens.wordpress.com
http://marcidressler.wordpress.com/

Reflections and Resolutions December 22, 2008

It’s not that I like the sentiment of the Wall Street and the likes, but boy am I happy that 2008 is near its end. All of sudden, I found myself  living in Dickens’s ” It was the best of times, it was the worst of times”.  Obama’s win marked the high point of history and the avalanche of the global recession marked the low.

At the personal level, 2008 has been pretty monumental with many news still leaving me in disbelief. As I flipped through the reflective issue of the Time magazine, I couldn’t believe how my personal life was paralleling to the historical backdrop. A year marked with numerous scandals(Spitzer, John Edwards, Madoff), a year will have generations to come to ponder the definition of greed, bailouts, deleverages… Am I a participant  in the midst of the craziness or merely an analyst trying to make sense of it? Maybe a little of both, but I do wish I have a turbo-charged spirit to soar through the gloomy moods of people and media. This is a year that I found my happiness is no longer solely depending on my own well-being but also people and events surrounding me. I’m 37, don’t tell me that’s called the mid-life C word.

And here’s to 2009, I will be always preparing for challenges in life. Be more vigilant and preemptive, be more proactive and disciplined in finding solutions to problems.  Be more resourceful and helpful to all people who need me. But most importantly, be able to feel thankful and happy for what I have accomplished so far.

Twitter, Tweety, Tweezer December 5, 2008

I’ve read the growing popularity of Twitter and found it just like an extension of Text Messaging. I can see the possible implementation for promoting Teen’s programs, but the “twittering” style of speech is not what I like to adopt.

Library Thing December 3, 2008

I created a list of my favorite books in the account, and really think this is such a cool feature. Although it’s not currently compatible with WordPress(I looked at the Beta page, it looked way to preliminary), the site is working towards a compatible feature. Bloggers are often readers as well, so I’ll say it’s a brilliant idea to link the two. I’m wondering if I can add this widget to our new website, what can you ask for more for a librarian!

Another way to bypass it is to copy the URL:

http://www.librarything.com/catalog/tuanhuei

MagMyPic December 3, 2008

It’s wild that we can generate all kinds of images through Image Generator, as this one(featured my brat cat Tin Tin!)  is from MagMyPic. I was not aware the prolificness of these widgets prior to the assignment. Of course the downside is equal to the upside–spending too much time in hunting for the best match!

Create Fake Magazine Covers with your own picture at MagMyPic.com

One of the brighter spots November 26, 2008

I’m just so glad John started this Forum to get crashed into Web 2.0, it’s certainly much more fun to learn everything as a group. Here’s a few blurbs about the experience,

To start a blog is like to reunite with one of the old lost friends. Combining the function of journaling and socializing at the same time, blogging really fits the bill of being the most effective way to communicate. From here I started another blog for my experience teaching Chinese and hopefully another one about my growing toddler son.

On RSS, I think it is one of the most exciting features ever being created online. I love to visit all my favorite sites’s most updated content in one stop shopping. Only hope I have more time to get to actually read all the new content on top of all the printed materials I wish to read. Definitely a powerful tool to librarian for aquisition purpose, it should be mandatory for public librarians to subscribe to PW or NYT Book Reviews’s feeds.

Doing the Web 2.0 exercises is one of the brighter spots in my professional and personal life.